Rhonda Starkey Obus
I met Wayne and Karen through the gun shop my husband and I owned in Montpelier. Wayne was full of stories, lessons and if course, mischief. He always brought a chuckle.
My husband and I were blessed to be invited to their home when the lived near Montpelier, where we learned more of Wayne's life. His paintings were beautiful!
But the memory I have of him that stands out is of his love for Patrick, his little companion. You could always tell Wayne and Karen were nearby when you'd hear Patrick barking his displeasure at being left behind in the car. It still brings a smile to my face.
As you all know, Wayne had Alzheimers. Early on when we met him, it was mild. But even with this disease, he had clarity at times. When I became concerned for my own mental faculties, he asked me very seriously if I'd thanked G-d for the affliction. I didn't know what to think at 1st but then it dawned on me, Wayne is right. We need to be thankful for things. Good and bad. He assured me G-d was in control. I think that was one of the most profound things anyone has ever said to me. And it gave me a peace.
RIP Wayne. You were loved very much....
