Oh Aunt Karen, where does one begin? You had the craziest personality. Although you didn’t suffer from insanity, you enjoyed every minute of it. You were absolutely hilarious and loved to laugh. Your sense of humor was inappropriate to say the least but you were always spot on. I’ll never forget the way you used to smack me and point something out that nobody else noticed and without saying a word we would both crack up laughing.
You had a lot of apartments and phone numbers and cats. You sure loved your cats. I remember when I first moved to Ohio one of your cats died and I had to take you to the vet to have her put down. You were an emotional mess. You loved those cats so much, but it didn’t even compare to the love you had for your family. The way you loved your nieces and nephews, your siblings, your husband and of course your beautiful mother is incomparable. You showed agape love, a love that is selfless and unconditional. I learned so much from you but the things that stand out the most are not to give a damn about what anyone thinks and to love unconditionally. It seems like just yesterday you were at our house in California. You ordered us pizza everyday after school, you took us on shopping sprees and absolutely refused to take a dime from us. You wouldn’t take no for an answer, like the time you ripped my dad’s check up in front of the cashier at the grocery store because you refuse to let my dad pay. Or when you cancelled my dad’s flight back to California because you didn’t want him to leave. When I first moved out to Ohio you not only bought Rick and I AC units for our new house, you also bought one for our roommate and my best friend Adam. You used to go with me to Famous Dave’s so I could see my future wife. I’ll never forget you telling me “She likes you, I can tell.” Six months after we started dating you looked me dead in the eyes and said “your gonna marry her aren’t you?” We have been married ten years in October and have been together for 19 years in March. You were such an awesome human being and I can’t believe I never get to embrace you and hold on tight and tell you how much I love you again. I took you for granted, I think everyone did…well almost everyone. You were one of a kind. You will live on in our hearts, act as a daily inspiration to live life not giving a damn what anybody thinks and I’ll strive everyday to show the love and loyalty that you showed your entire life. I love you Aunt Karen, I miss you so much already but I know you’re in a better place now. Please give Grandma, Aunt Pat and Uncle John a big hug for me and tell Dan hello as well.