One of my favorite and most valued traits which has carried me to have a life that is very filling and rewarding is a hard work ethic. Working obsessively hard and having grit allowed me to get an excellent education nearly for free, and paved the way for meeting my lovely wife, building a wonderful family, and obtaining a challenging career. Physical and mental toughness are not aspects that you are born with or inherited. These traits were infused in me from witnessing and experiencing the tireless work put forth from my Dad, Tim, throughout my childhood. Beyond the countless hours he spent working to provide for the family, he wasn't shy with spending additional hours at home to make our lives more entertaining and happy. A couple projects that demanded excessive labor and attention to detail included building a basketball court (pavers and sand), and the installation of a large above-ground pool (even more pavers and sand). Dad was often accompanied by his own father, the late Bill (the brains), who was another hard working man that I admired. It wouldn't surprise me if the hard-work of that man rubbed off on my Dad. Another more personal project involved building a pitching(baseball) backstop that I used to develop better command as a young pitcher; just don't ask many of the unfortunate batters who were in the way of a wild fastball. Both Dad and I would take turns trying to hit a suspended car tire, which approximated a strike zone, at the end of the backstop. Both of us threw left-handed, another coveted trait that helped me become a pitcher.
Up until now, I find myself enjoying many physical projects just like my Dad, much with a focus on making our children happier. Accompanied often by my wife (the brains), I find that working with my hands and to near exhaustion are compellingly satisfying. An abundance of achievement has come not from inherited gifts alone (Rebold and Stephan intelligence), but from the relentless work and effort that had to be applied. So as I reflect right now, and think about all the challenges and struggles that had to be endured, I often reflect on my resilience and character. I have my Dad to thank for being a model of that.